By C.J. Hirschfield
A security guard for the
Raiders. A longtime home healthcare attendant for a senior with Altzheimer’s. A
volunteer at Children’s Fairyland for 14 years.
Eric Martin is all of the
above, and we could not be more excited about his debut this Friday, the first
day of our Fairy Winterland, as the park’s official St. Nick. His life
experiences have taught him what it takes to excel in the position.
Eric Martin as Santa. |
When Fairyland’s longtime Santa
Claus, Ron Zeno, died earlier this year, we took the time to grieve and to
celebrate his life. But as we mourned Ron we also knew that we’d have to choose
a new Santa.
The thought was daunting, to
say the least. Hundreds of kids count on us. Ron’s Santa was warm, loving and respectful
of the kids. He believed unconditionally in the power of peace and love to
change the world, a belief he exuded during our holiday celebration. And he
absolutely loved Children’s Fairyland and all that we stand for.
Ron was also African American,
and we knew that a black Santa was something of a rarity – and meaningful to
many families.
Finding a new Santa who
exemplified what we consider to be Fairylandish qualities—sincerity, warmth,
compassion, empathy and joy – was key. We ultimately realized that such a
person was in our midst: our stellar volunteer, Eric Martin.
Eric’s father brought him to
Fairyland when he was 7. Forty-five years later he still remembers how
wonderful the park’s Magic Key was to him. “This is where I found that make-believe
is fun,” he says.
His first volunteer assignment
at Fairyland as an adult was serving cocoa and cider to families during Fairy
Winterland. He was hooked. “Kids still have an innocence,” he told me. “As
adults, we need to let go and just be kids again.”
For the last five years, Eric has
played the role of a pirate at our Jack o’Lantern Jamboree Pirates’ School. His
favorite part of the job, he says, is tossing gold coins into the sand by our
pirate ship and watching the kids happily scramble for the loot. He assures
nervous parents not to worry about their kids climbing too high on the ship.
“They’re in good hands,” he tells them.
Eric (right) as a pirate at Jack o'Lantern Jamboree. |
Which is a nice segue to Eric’s
career as a security professional, something he has been doing since he was 15.
He’s the dapper gatekeeper at the Oakland Raiders’ training facility in
Alameda, at San Francisco’s annual Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival and at
the home of one of the area’s wealthiest families. He claims to have handled “about
1,000” confrontations. Along the way he’s learned several things: You have to bring
some comfort to the situation. You have to be aware. You have to learn how to
read and treat people, to diffuse the situation, to put a person at ease. And
most of all: “You gotta talk.”
“I guess I’m a natural born
psychologist,” Eric says, laughing.
Eric at work at the Oakland Raiders training facility. |
He’s also served as an in-home
caregiver for his grandmother, his mother and now his father. For four years he
had to put his life on hold to take care of relatives. “It was a difficult
period,” he says, but he doesn’t regret it. “I’m the best caregiver in the
world,” he told me, adding
with a Santa-like twinkle:
“You’re not a real man until you’ve changed your mother’s diapers.”
Eric stepped in for Ron as
Santa two years ago for just three days. He learned a lot in that short time,
including how to read the nonverbal cues of a wide range of kids. He was
surprised at the sheer number of kids lining up to meet him, and at the “10,000
flashes” of photos that were taken by parents for posterity.
To prepare for his new role,
Eric was coached by a longtime Bay Area Santa. Not surprisingly, he intuitively
knew most of the tips already. He’s jolly. He’s able to communicate well with
each child. And he’s used to playing a role – not just a pirate but also the
Easter Bunny at Fairyland. Still, he says, “Santa is definitely the most
important character.”
You may be surprised to learn
that Fairyland gets about a dozen calls a day during the holiday season from
parents who want to know if we have a black Santa, and who express their
appreciation when we tell them yes.
The fact that our new Santa is
also a compassionate, caring people-person who loves kids and Fairyland makes
us very happy. “Ron Zeno was a legend,” says Eric. “I hope I can live up to the
legend.”
Join us at Fairy Winterland, where
Santa will be welcoming visitors at Fairyland daily, from Dec. 15 through Dec. 23,
from 5 p.m. to 6 p.m., and leading a parade at 6:15.
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C.J. Hirschfield has served for 15 years as executive director of Children's Fairyland, where she is charged with the overall operation of the nation's first storybook theme park.
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